Feel the difference – Attraction vs Love

Hi Everyone,

I am coming up with yet another non-technical post on a topic which I feel is very important in everyone’s life.

There is quite a dispute regarding this topic as what exactly is true love and what’s the actual form of attraction..

There are various forms of medium to meet a person these days..! When we first meet someone, regardless of the medium that we meet, we are either attracted or not.  Attraction, when pursued, eventually grows into levels of friendship and then may cross the barriers and grows into love.

If we meet someone in person, we tend to size them up physically and how they look. But if we meet the person through the phone conversation or internet chat, we judge the person by how they converse and how interesting they are while having chat?  It is very much true that people can act in whichever manner they want, be whatever they want to be, over the internet. But eventually the true person leaks through the cracks and we begin to see their true self.

Moral of the story:

Whatever is the medium, Be yourself!!  You may eventually want to meet the person on the other end of the conversation. And Yes, this happens.. :)

When you do meet the ‘real’ person on the other end,  remember that you have made to like that person because of what’s inside their heart and mind.

You have found a potential in person as ‘soul mate’ who thinks as you and feels the same way as you feel.

No one is perfect.

The physical appearance doesn’t matter as their inner looks and soul. What we see is what we get, and hopefully the heart ranks the highest. We fall in love with someone’s soul, not the shape or size of their body. And although a certain number of things can be done to improve physical appearance, that shouldn’t be our main criteria or requirement for friendship or companionship.

We all have our own flaws and shortcomings.  The concept of finding the ‘right’ person for you is good.  If you go behind finding a perfect one for yourself, then it is improbable and discouraging, because that ‘perfect’ one doesn’t exist. :|

It says “No one is perfect until you fall in love with them“. I believe, do you? :)

Signing off,

Have a great day! :)